Remember, that their always come a time when will have to sacrifice and refresh our feelings. Saying goodbye isn't easy but true joy can only be found not in getting what we want. But wanting to give what makes others happy.
TO LOVE A MARRIED ONE
Its never wrong to feel this way to someone. What makes loving painful is when we expect the other person to reciprocate this love with the same intensity us ours. Most of us can seem to love unselfishly. You should be thankful because she had the courage to deny herself of the things she wants. So, she can preserved those that she needs. Put yourself in their place and put yourself in her husband's place. And see how it feel if someone tries to take your love away from you. Not even a lousy marriage is a good reason for couples to give up what they vow to keep forever. If you only think of your own happiness then its not love but selfishness. We can never be truly happy when we get what we want from other people's miseries. You should learn to accept that she made a sensible decision. And she did this, not to hurt you but to make you realized that there is more joy in sacrifice than the dissatisfaction of your own personal desire. When we lose something precious to us. We ponder upon your predicament and gain understanding. Its only when we stumble that we learn how to stand up from the ground and start all over again. Let this understanding be your crutch, so you can walk again. When time finally heals your wounds and you would be able to accept reality. And let go the the crutch of the past. And moved on with your life and find love again.
