I can imagine how devastating it was for your fiancee saw you bare hugging with another man in a movie house. I know it took him a lot of courage to turn away and not make a seen of what he saw. But it must have felt bitterly painful. We all know that marriage should happen once. And once we into it, there's practically no turning back. This is the reason why relationship specially those are soon bound to the altar are given a final test. Because couples realized they were not preferred for the many things and responsibilities that marriage entails. Others simply fall out love and choose to break that makes promise they can't keep. Above anything else, the most conclusive test to any relationship bound for marriage is the test for love. God sometimes allow someone to break into fortress of our seemingly impenetrable strong commitment to someone. And the ultimate test is our integrity, our faithfulness to the person we have vow to share our lives with. I know you love your fiancee more than this man but their something to him that take your chance and play a dangerous game. Where you have knowingly gambles your very own future. You are attracted to him in a different way. The man knew out to get to you during the time you are very intimate to him. He became everything that your fiancee was not. He was part of an adventure that you enjoy exploring even if you knew its a deadly risk.
This is the test in you relationship and you failed it. You have love yourself more than you love your relationship. And you set your conscience set aside to have what you want and enjoy only what you wanted. There is a prize we have to pay for the wrong we do. He is only after what he can take from you. He never loved you. All his efforts were just selfishly aim towards his final goal. To get what he wants, when he wanted it. You have fallen victim to sexual and physical appeal. But that was just all he had. You have gamble but this doesn't mean you lost everything. Doesn't mean that there is nothing you can start all over again.
1st, you have to settle the past. You fiancee deserved an apology, let him know how sorry you were for hurting his feelings. And if losing him made you realized how much you really love him. Then make sure he knows that, too. This is where you start of, with a new life with your fiancee or someone else or just by yourself. We may stumble and hurt those we love but there's "No mountain so high that Love can't climb over. There's no sea so wild that can not crossed". Let us always remember, when there is love there is forgiveness. There is hope for a new life, a new beginning and promise of a beautiful forever.
