Man have different ways in making there presence felt. And have different approaches in laying the foundations for there platform in courtship. His calls and visits are vital in creating a solid ground for friendship. A relationship based on it in differ and more profound level. Unfortunately, his efforts mean because you close down that he felt he was just a big brother to you forever. He likes you so much that all he took was smile and path on the back. To bring him up to his feet again. That accident gave him a new hope to a chance that he taught he had lost already.
It took him all his courage to confess his feelings that fateful day. But all he got from you was just a silent blank stair. He probably felt humiliated but what you did. And how you reacted that way hinted him that was all their was to your friendship. You could have been so silent and unresponsive when your hands were held by the man you knew you love all alone. You realized he was hurt but still expected him to say those words again. You could have atleast in your own simple ways made him see that you felt the same way for him, too. It's never to late, but now inappropriate to let him know your true feelings. He married because of the pain you cost him.
And you would not want to hurt him more by letting him know that there could have been as ask for both of you. Not now that he is committed already. God never gives those that are not for us. He was never meant to be more than a friend. You are destined for someone else. But that would not come until you learn the lesson that God has taught you. True Love doesn't speak in silence, for silence holds a thousand meanings of clear thoughts and vague intentions. And even carries a dagger sometimes that can cause pain and destroy a relationship.
All of us, must realized, we never had to wait for tomorrow to let someone know that we care. If we pass on our love today then there never be a next day to show it. If there still a next day, there never be someone to show it, too. Love is never afraid, if it is then it isn't love. Remember, we may never live another day to show it. And people may never be around anymore even when we finally decide to express it. Let us not miss a chance of showing love today. So that when we wake up and open our eyes tomorrow. We will never regret yesterday. When we have found love and lose it because we were too selfish and afraid to show it.
